Safety & trust

Your safety comes first

Trust isn't a feature we added later — it's the ground OiAmor is built on. Every profile, every conversation, and every meeting is designed so your heart can be open and your guard can rest.

Community guidelines

A few rules, kept with care

Four simple commitments every member makes. They keep OiAmor feeling like a warm room full of friends — not a crowd of strangers.

18+ only

OiAmor is for adults. Everyone confirms their age at sign-up, and underage accounts are removed the moment we find them.

Be real

Recent, honest photos and a profile that sounds like you. No filters pretending to be facts, no borrowed pictures, no invented lives.

Be respectful

No harassment, hate, or pressure — ever. A “no” is a full sentence here, and warmth is never an excuse to cross a line.

Protect your privacy

Keep addresses, documents, and finances to yourself. Never send money to someone you met online — no matter how sweet the story.

Meeting safely

From “oi” to hello, safely

The best first dates start with a little planning. Four habits that keep the butterflies — and lose the worry.

Chat here first

Keep conversations inside OiAmor while you get to know someone. Our tools can only protect what happens here.

Meet in public, tell a friend

Choose a café, a park, a busy botequim. Share your plans and location with someone you trust — and arrange your own ride.

Trust your instincts

If something feels off, it probably is. You never owe anyone a second chance, an explanation, or a longer evening.

Never send money

Not for tickets, emergencies, or customs fees. Requests for money or financial details are the clearest red flag there is.

Romance-scam awareness

Real love never asks for your wallet

Romance scams are rare here — but knowing the signs keeps everyone safer. Take your time, and watch for these patterns:

See one of these? Report the profile — quietly and in seconds. You'll be protecting someone else's heart, too.

  • Declarations of love that arrive suspiciously fast, before you've truly met.
  • Endless excuses to avoid a video call or meeting in person.
  • Any request for money, gift cards, crypto, or your financial details.

Reporting & blocking

One tap, and we take it from there

Report or block anyone, from any profile or any conversation — it takes seconds, and they're never notified it was you.

You can even report a single message, so our team sees exactly what happened, in context.

Every report goes straight to our human moderation team, is handled confidentially, and is followed by real action — from a warning to a permanent goodbye.

“I need $500 for a plane ticket to come visit you…”

Report message Block
Sent to moderation · confidential
18+ only Every member confirms their age
Photo-verified community Real faces, genuinely checked
Human moderation People reviewing reports, every day

Open your heart. We've got your back.

Come meet people the safe way — verified profiles, watchful humans, and tools that answer to you. The love part is yours; the trust part is ours.

Free forever plan · Safety tools never behind a paywall · 18+